Dating emotionally unavailable man
However I only realised just after we split that he was one.
But all the signs were there and I’m so annoyed at myself for not seeing them.
These are the mysterious, ambiguous guys that will always keep you guessing and keep you “on your toes” (for reference, “on your toes,” is a polite way of saying “in a perpetual state of mixed signals, mind f*ing and the questioning-everything-kind-of-insecurity, insanity, WTF-is-wrong-with-me-I-must-be-going-crazy, miserable existence that you’d rather be in and try to “fix” than be out of and alone).
You’re more unhappy than you are happy, you can’t move on and you don’t know what to do. At times, you’ve seen him be everything that you want.
This is a guy that no matter who he is with, he’ll never have genuine emotional intimacy.
This guy knows the difference between right and wrong and not only does he not care to change, but he makes you feel like there is something wrong with you that’s “causing” his behavior. You know you can’t fully “have” all of him and there lies the “chemistry.” Emotionally unavailable guys are so luring because even when you “have” them, it never really feels like you do.Even with the knowledge I still stuck around trying to fix our problems alone. I am moving on with no contact and putting myself first. And I am scared of meeting another emotionally unavailable.Even when he said my feelings are my own opinion and he didn’t have to agree. My relationship with an emotionally unavailable guy ended 1 month ago. Before I met him I was aware of these types of guys and really didn’t want to be with another one.It’s like sticking your head in the toilet and then complaining about the smell. I hate myself for wasting all this time and energy, on someone who will never be emotionally available.You’re only going to prolong your chances of meeting someone who will love you equally. I have spent entirely too much time crying over this guy. Had I only known the true nature of his trouble oh my i would have run for the hills. So consuming I almost lost everything I’ve worked my whole to achieve just to keep holding on. You have all of the awareness and strength within you.