Dating for years and hes not ready to get married
If your guy likes to keep you guessing, there’s a reason.This is another sure sign that he’s keeping his options open.OK ladies, unless he was (verifiably) There is absolutely no good reason for this (except the one above), and if you stay with him after a maneuver like that, you’ll be in for a very bumpy emotional ride that’s almost guaranteed to end badly.Cell phone reception is excellent these days (unless he’s a lumberjack working in the Great North Woods), so this one is unforgivable.And let me say, as far as mildly deranged people go, they’re very sweet (I met them at the wedding), and they did a great job at raising their son/nephew. I know there are situations, such as when a divorced man wants to spend time with his children at the family holiday get together, but even then he can make time for you either before or after his family time.So the bottom line is that if the relationship has been going on for some time – just to put a number on it, let’s say over 6 months – and he hasn't invited you to meet his family yet, it’s certainly time to question him about it. Everyone knows how special holidays are to us women, and if he doesn't, then that’s a sign of other issues (for example, not being considerate and thoughtful regarding your feelings).This one is the flip side to the last warning sign - if he’s so busy talking all about himself, and shows no interest in who Steer clear (way clear).If he doesn't introduce you to his friends or ask you to hang out with them once in a while, go to a party or get together with them - that’s a sure sign that he’s not sure about the whole thing.
I have a good friend whose husband’s family (which consists of his elderly mother and Aunt, who raised him together and still both live together) are essentially, well, mildly deranged.Of course you may not want to hang out with his friends much, particularly if they’re a group of partying bachelors, but they should at least decision.How they treat you when you’re around can also be a big tell-tale sign of how things are going or will go – if they kind of treat you like “yeah, you’re the girlfriend of the month, I’ll talk to you if you can make it past week 4”, then that’s a sign of what’s likely to be coming next.They look like the stereotypical “bag ladies”, and even showed up for my friends nuptials wearing multiple layers of ragged clothing and carrying some of their belongings in what were essentially re-usable shopping bags.But he had told her about them fairly early on in their relationship, and she did finally meet them.