Excuses for not dating someone
He could be too immature for you (which is probably what's happening) or he could be not telling you something, and honestly, you probably don't even want to know what's actually going on.
Sometimes a guy will tell you that he doesn't "feel a strong connection" when you two are hanging out or that he's "not sure" if he wants to date you.
Dating is always complicated and sometimes, people make it a lot more difficult and confusing than it needs to be. Sometimes a guy will tell you that he can't date you because he's going on vacation.
You have definitely had guys give you every potential excuse under the sun about why they can't go out with you, whether you just met them, have been chatting with them online or have been dating for a while. Maybe he's going away for a week, maybe it's two weeks, but chances are he is not actually moving somewhere and will be home pretty soon.
In reality, he probably shouldn't be dating anyone at all - and you're better off stepping back and not hanging out with him while he works through this.
Source: i Stock What you think this means: He wants to just have a chill, casual relationship for now, but he might change his mind in the future.
He's not interested in dating anyone seriously and wants to have fun and do his own things.
Option number two: He isn't over her yet, and hasn't moved on.
It can also give you hope that that will change in the future.Not only do these excuses sound nicer, but they also take the guy off the hook – excuses help them avoid uncomfortable confrontation and make them look a little better.And, in some cases, these excuses also enable them to continue hooking up with you without having to, you know, treat you like someone they care about. You meet someone you like, they like you back, things fall into place, and you find yourself in a serious relationship with that person.Other times – and sometimes it feels like all the time – things are a lot messier.