Senior girl dating a freshman guy college
You can't be there physically for her all the time, but if you can start the discussion yourself, you'll be the voice that comes to mind when she needs to recall all you've taught her. My family didn't seem comfortable at first then they met him. We have now been together five years and married for a year and a half.My parents had a sit down talk with both of us when we first started dating and there expectations If he came over we had to stay in the living room. You may find that he is not at all what you thought and he is far less likely to do something "wrong" if he knows who you are, and what your expectations of him as a friend of your daughter.
The more you try and control the more they'll push the boundaries. That’s when they start learning about their future and what not to do. Okay as a senior in highschool, we would consider the guy in the equation to basically be a pedophile. Senior boys aren't so good for naive young freshman girls. Your daughter will be upset but trust me, you'll be thanked for it later. I have had experience with a guy from 9th, 10th, 11th, and now 12th and it seems to be that the juniors are normally the ones worse for freshman girls.Keep in mind the alternative, and try to arm her with real knowledge, not the random stuff she can find on the internet or hear from her buddies at school.Personally, I think dating in high school isn't all bad (nerve-wrecking for the parents, yes, but not all bad).The best thing to do is show you support her but also are just worried.It would also be a good idea to meet him, just to make sure he is a responsible young man.